As I have mentioned in previous posts, my wife and I are
raising our child to be bilingual. Our goal is to have him fluent in both
Japanese and English. I suppose this makes sense since I am Canadian and my wife
is Japanese.
Long story short, our current method is pretty
straightforward. My wife speaks to my 2 year 5 month old son in Japanese and I
speak to him in English. His L1 (first language) is Japanese since we do live
in Japan and he is immersed in the language on a daily basis. His L2 (second
language) is English. He does hear some English throughout the day by watching
DVDs of American and Canadian children’s programs and my wife is teaching him
during the day, but his time with a native English speaker on a day-to-day
basis is relatively limited. I am of course referring to myself and because of
my work/commute schedule only get to spend a few hours a day with him.
I plan to describe the nuts and bolts of what we do to help
his language develop in future posts, but today I want to talk about something
that is a little amusing and something that parents raising any child, not
necessarily a bilingual one will probably face.
I learned two important lessons this week:
1. Apparently I swear on occasion (use words that
aren’t so nice) and am not even aware of it.
2. My child’s language development is exploding and
he has become a parrot. He repeats almost EVERYTHING (good or bad) I say!
Three days ago I was sitting on my living room floor playing
with my son and some of his toys. It was early evening and the television was
on as well.
My son walked past me to get a toy car. On his way back to
the carpet area we were sitting on he decided to walk behind me. Our laundry
drying rack was set up behind me with some clothes on it (no electric driers in
Japanese apartments). As he tried to squeeze between the rack and me he caught
his foot on the rack and tripped. He didn’t fall down, but he said, “Oh Shit!”
At least that’s what I thought I heard my toddler spit out. I immediately
looked at my wife who was sitting at the dining room table just a few meters
away. She looked at me, shook her head and said, “Yup…he said it.”
Earlier this afternoon, my son was sitting at the kitchen
table with my wife and I while we had coffee. He of course wasn’t drinking
coffee, but playing with some blocks. One of them fell and without missing a
beat he said, “Shit!”
To say this embarrasses me is an understatement. I didn’t
even realize that I say the word “shit” at home, but obviously he learned it
from somewhere and I doubt the Dora the Explorer DVDs he watches while I’m at
work taught him that.
My son decorating our Christmas tree this month.
I have heard of similar situations before. My brother in
Canada had a similar situation years ago when his oldest child was learning to
speak. He also learned like I just did that it isn’t a good idea to use bad
language around your little ones.
I have been a teacher for eleven years and since becoming a
teacher, have really tried to be aware of the language I use. I very rarely use
profanities, but I suppose I learned that on occasion I do. This week I realized
that as my son’s language abilities are suddenly exploding (he can speak full sentences
in both Japanese and English) I need to be more careful about the language decisions
I make!
This is a short video I shot of my son and I a few days ago out for a walk.
In the very near future, I plan to write more posts about specific
areas of my son’s language learning. I also plan to interview and talk to other
parents raising bilingual children. I will do some live Google Hangouts with some
people in similar parenting situations as me as well as interview some people who
were raised bilingual.
Remember you can follow me on Twitter @jlandkev
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